Love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. These fruits are not for show, they are for sharing with others.
You have a choice. You can experience the short-term satisfaction of retaliating and get into trouble with God for doing it, or show mercy and kindness and be rewarded by God for doing it.
If you’re an organized, time-conscious, purpose-driven, make-it-happen kind of person you can get upset with incompetence and low productivity in others.